The sacred-secular distinction has played itself out in discomforting ways during my education career even, my problem largely being with zealously religious families. I will ferret out that their children are not as upright as the parents have showcased them to be and will discover, say, a drug addiction, deep-rooted lying, or a sexual deviance to name a few. And you know what parents will tell me the very next day?
"Oh, we talked with our child, and you WILL see a difference today. We talked for hours, we prayed, we cried, and she really has changed. The Spirit of God was REALLY at work." I will smile and tell the parents I am very hopeful, but then I will say something like this:
"Insofar as your child's interaction with drugs, did you call the numbers your son was texting to find out who his suppliers are? Did you tell the youth leaders at church the names of the kids who are doing drugs with your daughter? Did you get your daughter drug-tested and would you furnish me the results? Are you still giving your son large sums of cash for allowance? Did you take your daughter's license away so that she can't drive?"
"Insofar as your child's lying, what gives you cause to believe your son is sincere? Did you check up on whether or not your daughter actually was at church last night or at a friend's house? Why did you give your son four hours of unsupervised free time with his friends after you told me you were going to monitor him?"
"Insofar as your child's promiscuity, did you or are you going to get your boy tested for STDs? Are you still going on that trip today and leaving your daughter home all weekend? Did you turn off your son's phone service perrmanently? Do you think that your own infidelity has anything to do with this? Are you monitoring your daughter's Internet use? Does your daughter still have cable TV in her room?"
Nine times out of ten, do you know how these families will respond? They will preach at me. They will tell me that I don't understand teenagers, or I don't understand forgiveness, or I don't understand what it is like for them, or I don't understand faith, or I need to come to their church where the truth is being spoken and learn from their pastor, or they will give me some asinine reference from Scripture that allows them to remain in this sacred-secular fantasy. However, when their "special" child commits the same offense again and again, the parent will shell out thousands of dollars for drug rehab, for intensive counseling, or sometimes they will give up their child altogether when they could have shut their mouths and looked at the total reality in the first place.
This example serves to underscore how you cannot show-case authenticity, and it is equally absurd to apply this thinking to areas of spirituality or missionarying (even though mission organizations/mission brokers expect periodic, measurable evidence). You can count the members of a church and end up with a number, but you cannot count the number of authentic Christians in that church. You can measure the authentic Christian influence of that church bythe volume of its various relationships to the community (the highest marks given to its ultimate indispensability), but you cannot tout that means as exclusively sacred.
"But with the falling out of three global empires—the Chinese, Russian, and American—who will now guide the emerging global culture? What will be at the core of the culture of the twenty-first century? Would it be raw, selfish materialism? Or will the gospel of Jesus Christ take its rightful place at the heart of the new cultural synthesis that is now emerging? That is the question."
When Ling uses the word "materialism", do not mistake him for meaning an infatuation with material possesions. He means a worldview emphasis upon the material with material as the validating factor of every portion of reality. According to Ling, Third World culture was “ready for harvest” because they were more easily susceptible to the appeal of Christianity than the Modern because they already subscribed to a deity of some sort. I know that this is a harsh thing to say, but it is true. However, as Samuel Ling cogently ascertains, back of the esoteric nature of Western missionary endeavors was materialism, which means that, though a genuine sentiment to “reach the lost” existed, the framework for reaching the “lost” was absent deity (authentic demonstration) and to be found in statistical averages, probability factors, and a mechanistic view of cause-and-effect.
"Oh, we talked with our child, and you WILL see a difference today. We talked for hours, we prayed, we cried, and she really has changed. The Spirit of God was REALLY at work." I will smile and tell the parents I am very hopeful, but then I will say something like this:
"Insofar as your child's interaction with drugs, did you call the numbers your son was texting to find out who his suppliers are? Did you tell the youth leaders at church the names of the kids who are doing drugs with your daughter? Did you get your daughter drug-tested and would you furnish me the results? Are you still giving your son large sums of cash for allowance? Did you take your daughter's license away so that she can't drive?"
"Insofar as your child's lying, what gives you cause to believe your son is sincere? Did you check up on whether or not your daughter actually was at church last night or at a friend's house? Why did you give your son four hours of unsupervised free time with his friends after you told me you were going to monitor him?"
"Insofar as your child's promiscuity, did you or are you going to get your boy tested for STDs? Are you still going on that trip today and leaving your daughter home all weekend? Did you turn off your son's phone service perrmanently? Do you think that your own infidelity has anything to do with this? Are you monitoring your daughter's Internet use? Does your daughter still have cable TV in her room?"
Nine times out of ten, do you know how these families will respond? They will preach at me. They will tell me that I don't understand teenagers, or I don't understand forgiveness, or I don't understand what it is like for them, or I don't understand faith, or I need to come to their church where the truth is being spoken and learn from their pastor, or they will give me some asinine reference from Scripture that allows them to remain in this sacred-secular fantasy. However, when their "special" child commits the same offense again and again, the parent will shell out thousands of dollars for drug rehab, for intensive counseling, or sometimes they will give up their child altogether when they could have shut their mouths and looked at the total reality in the first place.
This example serves to underscore how you cannot show-case authenticity, and it is equally absurd to apply this thinking to areas of spirituality or missionarying (even though mission organizations/mission brokers expect periodic, measurable evidence). You can count the members of a church and end up with a number, but you cannot count the number of authentic Christians in that church. You can measure the authentic Christian influence of that church bythe volume of its various relationships to the community (the highest marks given to its ultimate indispensability), but you cannot tout that means as exclusively sacred.
"But with the falling out of three global empires—the Chinese, Russian, and American—who will now guide the emerging global culture? What will be at the core of the culture of the twenty-first century? Would it be raw, selfish materialism? Or will the gospel of Jesus Christ take its rightful place at the heart of the new cultural synthesis that is now emerging? That is the question."
When Ling uses the word "materialism", do not mistake him for meaning an infatuation with material possesions. He means a worldview emphasis upon the material with material as the validating factor of every portion of reality. According to Ling, Third World culture was “ready for harvest” because they were more easily susceptible to the appeal of Christianity than the Modern because they already subscribed to a deity of some sort. I know that this is a harsh thing to say, but it is true. However, as Samuel Ling cogently ascertains, back of the esoteric nature of Western missionary endeavors was materialism, which means that, though a genuine sentiment to “reach the lost” existed, the framework for reaching the “lost” was absent deity (authentic demonstration) and to be found in statistical averages, probability factors, and a mechanistic view of cause-and-effect.
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